I have always been blogging anything that I wish to remind myself or pour my feelings out in this blog. Random topics eventually cross my mind, while I'm trying to be kinda.. mature? Yeah, perhaps. Mature when necessary, tho. So, I was wondering about this simple thing that normally happens in our society. Like, misunderstanding.  You went through this once in your life, didn't you? Actually, countless times, it's either you never realized or you never want to realize. There's a big difference tho. 

Misunderstanding, honestly, this simple word can tear your world apart and you'll feel so hopeless, like you aren't able to do anything. Why you was not be able to solve a small issue? Misunderstanding starts off in seconds and the impact on your life can last forever, till you resolve the issue. Isn't it funny? How a misunderstanding in between two or more people can cause so much, till sometimes you just know that you can't afford it. 

It's not that you don't want to solve it out, it's just that, the situation itself becomes a barrier. The 'scariest' part of it is that it happens suddenly! Like, just imagine yeah. You dress up perfectly. Put your high heels on. Make-up like a professional make-up artist. Your world is like filled up with everything so beautiful, so fabulous, perfect enough. You have a perfect mood and everything seems so magical. You feel like, oh okay I'm gonna make this day one of my best day, one of the day that is filled with laughter, joy, happiness and fun! 

Thennnnnn .. Booooom! Every magical moments you just desired for,  disappear in a blink of an eye due to just a small misunderstanding, and even worse when you get misunderstood. When you are misunderstood for something, you feel bad, don't you? It hurts. What you can do is, decorate the best smile on your face and face it everything. Remember, do your best to explain the situation even though you don't have to, at least you'll be able to 'save' a relationship. 

Things will eventually get better. Insha Allah.

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I had this.. free time I guess, thinking about what to do, while finished up watching a movie and Instagram-ming. AN ADDICTED INSTAGRAMMER! Hahah. So, I always have a lot to say, and when I start, people'll be having to struggle to stop me. So basically, as I always observe things around, I do notice many things. Things that others have hard time to see or maybe notice. Like kinda not so important type of things. But let me just mix up everything and keep typing. 

Have you ever felt like you have too many negative vibes around you rather than having positive ones? Like seriously. No matter what you do, people always have the time and the urge to interfere and fire you up with negative comments. Like no matter what you plan or think or even just say, you always have those tiny mouths speaking big around you. Making it simple, negative comments or negative opinions just to make others to hate you, avoid you, ignore you, feel ridiculous etc.

Yes, we do have people that wear the mask of a friend and kinda those that we trust. Those that we expected to be nice and wants the best for us. We do try to ask their opinion regarding something, but logically, we can think and have instinct to know what is good and bad for us, what can bring positivity so on. But sometimes it happens like this..like.. their suggestion and opinion are always negative. So rather than I try to just continue explaining this, I guess you've got the idea what kind of people I mean. Hopefully. 

What I really wanna say is that no matter what happens, do everything for you. Be yourself. People don't have to like you and you don't have to care. Keep being kind to people and Allah will bless you with good people around you and take out those negative ones outta your life no matter how it hurts later. Allah loves you and HE , the Almighty knows everything and indeed, nobody can understand you better than Allah. Allah,  listens everything you wanna say and you can't say. HE knows everything and why we, can't even spend a couple of seconds to pray to Allah for the positive vibes and pray for a smooth and blessed life?  

You don't need to trust people. Trusting extensively may lead you to destruction, and I'm talking based on my experience,too. I've seen people that are so capable to break your trust in a matter of seconds. Remember, life is 10% of what happens to you, and 90% of how you react to it. Just enjoy the little things in your life and pray that each and every day of your life gets better, Insha ALLAH.

In a hadith Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:

“Mix with the noble people, you become one of them; and keep away from evil people to protect yourself from their evils.” (Al-Bukhari and Muslim) 

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So I'm back with some..words. Haha.  Heart touching posts makes me think sometimes that I am drowning deep in the ocean of sadness and failure.. Haha, okay joking. Well, anything that crosses my mind or any thought I've been giving attention to will turn out to be in forms of word, in this blog. So yeah, basically, that title of my entry. Am I sad? Am I thinking of something? Is there anything troubling me? Is there any kind of thought making me feel terrible? Figure it out.

So let's move on. What made me blog about this topic is, I don't know. It's just something I want to post here. What am I going to say next are all the words from my heart. Sometimes, I do think of small little things. Overthinking have never been apart from my personality, but what matters is that I think for people, and for all the feelings that I don't want them to feel. The negative feelings. Feelings of not getting any help when you want one, feeling of being ignored, feeling of being left out and feeling of being approached for just a purpose. That's how life is, isn't it? Why should I complaint right? Well, I humblely and sincerely wish no one feels the negative feelings ever. Those feelings are able to make you feel sad. Sometimes for a reason, sometimes without a reason. And my dear, don't be sad. :) 

Every human being has that emotion of feeling sad. Like don't tell me you never did. You might did, but what differentiates you with others is just the way how you were able to overcome it and stayed strong. Like nothing happened. Nothing should make me sad. I'm not sad. All about the mindset. I personally believe that you should just let it out. Just pour out the emotions in a way you prefer the most, that makes the heavy burden in your heart to lighten. 

My friend..

Others have been aching for years. Others have been going through so much that you have never imagined of. We never been able to replace our soul in theirself, those people suffering with a lot of problems and may I say, tests from the Almighty? What I can say is.. Ya Ilahi, khuz bi qalbii lir rashadi.... :)

To be highlighted, if you ever feel sad, just identify and observe the small little child in you. Saying to you, dear you don't need to be sad. Be happy, for you, for others, for people around you, for all your beloved ones. You can overcome this. You know you have to. You know you will. :)

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Our social problem which creates a negative perspective in today's 'foreigners' or 'visitors'. When we have bad mood due to one single person, we most probably make a sour face or show a bad behavior to others. No matter its about having a bad mood due to big or small family problems, fighting with a best friend, getting a bad comment from a stranger, negative compliments from people around you or what so ever.

You will always end up ruining up your precious moments in a day.

Why don't you just act cool and smile frequently so that your body releases endorphins which are good natural painkillers ? Life can be complicated if your mind set-up is all about stress and letting others to mind your business rather than minding their own.

When you post a photo in the social media be it Instagram, Facebook, or even write a post in your blog, should you expect people to be so kind-hearted and accept your opinions thus having a look at the photo positively ? I don't think so. So rather than getting upset and having a heartache for these kind of problems, just don't simply ruin your day. Have a positive thought that compared to that small number of negative people, there are many eagerly waiting for an update from you.

Problems. Allah creates problems in your life be it small or big to test you and HE loves you a lot because HE even provides solution for any problem you face. Accept every problem positively. Rather than getting nervous, anxious, worried, overstressed and tensed for problems, find the solution. Have some patience.

There are seven billion people in the world, so why are you letting one to ruin your day ? :)

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All I want to highlight is the benefits of struggling as well as some motivation. Yeah, I call it benefits. Seeing the good in every struggle is the the skill that will motivate you very well and believe me, after a time it will be your inner personality, all by itself. You know what? The struggle we face can be 1 percent of others' struggle or may be greater than anyone else's. Who knows?  Some people struggle for basic necessities but some struggle for the exclusive desires or dreams. Laughing on people's struggle is something that is called rude, unethical or unpleasant, isn't it? Like come on, that's not some kind of joke or comedy. You can never put yourself in other people's shoes so easily. You might have gone through that feelings or emotions, but things can't always be the same for everyone, isn't it? 

*your life is colorful if you have all these emotions, that's what life is,right?*

Remember, whenever you are struggling for something, it is all about a test. You are actually being tested in terms of your patience and beliefs. You can struggle for much more, you know why? Because Allah, the Almighty will  never test you beyond your limits. HE knows you can do it and you can go through it, overcome it! All you need to do is have some patience and stay calm. Stay motivated, by any means that makes you motivate yourself and keep yourself relaxed. Have some kind of planning,peeps. Remember? Those who fail to plan, plan to fail. I mean you need no specific form of plan, just have some kind of simple planning. That is more than enough. Do whatever that makes you feel satisfied and makes you feel good. What matters now is that you, yes you, take care of your feelings, your emotions, your self-esteem, your appearance and your HEART.

Some things don't come easily. You gotta struggle real hard. But if some things really don't come in your way, be positive. Maybe you deserve something better. Maybe your life is meant to be more meaningful than getting something that you wanted. Maybe there is some kind of good (inshaAllah there is). You know what? you are precious.:) Till I blog again. ^_^

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