I have always been blogging anything that I wish to remind myself or pour my feelings out in this blog. Random topics eventually cross my mind, while I'm trying to be kinda.. mature? Yeah, perhaps. Mature when necessary, tho. So, I was wondering about this simple thing that normally happens in our society. Like, misunderstanding. You went through this once in your life, didn't you? Actually, countless times, it's either you never realized or you never want to realize. There's a big difference tho.
Misunderstanding, honestly, this simple word can tear your world apart and you'll feel so hopeless, like you aren't able to do anything. Why you was not be able to solve a small issue? Misunderstanding starts off in seconds and the impact on your life can last forever, till you resolve the issue. Isn't it funny? How a misunderstanding in between two or more people can cause so much, till sometimes you just know that you can't afford it.
It's not that you don't want to solve it out, it's just that, the situation itself becomes a barrier. The 'scariest' part of it is that it happens suddenly! Like, just imagine yeah. You dress up perfectly. Put your high heels on. Make-up like a professional make-up artist. Your world is like filled up with everything so beautiful, so fabulous, perfect enough. You have a perfect mood and everything seems so magical. You feel like, oh okay I'm gonna make this day one of my best day, one of the day that is filled with laughter, joy, happiness and fun!
Thennnnnn .. Booooom! Every magical moments you just desired for, disappear in a blink of an eye due to just a small misunderstanding, and even worse when you get misunderstood. When you are misunderstood for something, you feel bad, don't you? It hurts. What you can do is, decorate the best smile on your face and face it everything. Remember, do your best to explain the situation even though you don't have to, at least you'll be able to 'save' a relationship.
Things will eventually get better. Insha Allah.
